Wednesday, April 17, 2013

WHAT I KNOW ABOUT FEAR Part 1)

And of whom have you been afraid or feared, that you have lied and have not remembered Me, nor laid it to your heart? Isaiah 57:11

A life of fear is not a happy life and with fright, soon comes flight. Mwango Lupupa 09/04/2013

There are some things that every wise man or woman, boy or girl can make light of. Fear should not be one of them. Since fear is something we all personally experience at one point, see or witness or hear/read about, I invite you dear readers to contribute what you know about it, particularly the things that people fear and why we, especially Christians, should not fear.  However, only post something after you have read my post. And I set the ball rolling!

Somewhere in the year 2012 my mind began to be intensely occupied by the subject of fear in an investigative or analytical way. Talking to people is something I do quite a lot and easily, most of the time. So with this interest and easiness came the desire to try to understand from a different viewpoint other than that of direct sin, what sometimes or oftentimes causes/makes people to lie mainly – not to tell the truth but lies, even when under oath! I discovered it is fear. Is it because life for so many is so unpredictable that the only thing predictable about life is its unpredictability? Read on.


I will talk about fear not as one exempted or at an advantage per say, for I know and feel the horrible tease or harassment and hideous effects it sometimes would bring upon my own heart. Hardly a week or so after I became a Christian in December 1994, the reality of being a sinner and especially impending death brought such fear that I somehow developed stomach ulcers! Well, the good news is that fear can be faced, tackled and overcome. But the problem usually is when people do not realize that they are afraid or refuse or hesitate to face and deal with it in the first place, and consequently they are swiftly or eventually overcome by this sly enemy. It is my sincere hope then, seeing, that fear has no right to any part of us, that we, Christians in particular, go about a good and lawful warfare, in the name of God, if drive it out.

Webster defines fear as: A painful emotion or passion excited by an expectation of evil, or the apprehension of impending danger. Fear is accompanied with a desire to avoid or ward off the expected evil, he adds. Fear is an uneasiness of mind, upon the thought of future evil likely to befall us. Fear is the passion of our nature (I and not Webster, will say after “the fall”) which excites us to provide for our security, on the approach of evil. It is anxiety; solicitude (concern, care, worry), which makes us put ourselves first regardless. The Hebrew brings out words like horror or terror. Clearly, this is not and cannot be how we Christians are told we should fear God. He is our dear Father, our friend and we are His co-workers – it is reverence and honour, and I will not get into that now but I say one thing to God’s enemies (the unbelievers, non-Christians, the wicked) that they should ‘fear him who can destroy both soul and body in hell.’ Mat 10:28. So I will use and talk about it as defined by Webster.

The word fear (+ feared) appears about 443 times from Genesis to Revelation, about 341 times in the Old Testament alone; while afraid occurs 167 times in the entire Bible and only 39 times in the New Testament. That’s an average of 6.7 times in each book for fear. That could be either commanding us to revere and honour the Lord; or saying that we did/do not do so; or commanding/exhorting us not to actually be troubled, anxious/worried or be in panic and freeze as though dead, but calm, bold, confident and focused. God could also be telling to His enemies that they should be actually troubled, anxious/worried and panic and or saying that they experienced this. God demands reverence and honour from everyone because He deserves it, he is worthy of it as the Lord our God, although He does not force it. And because He is not a tyrant, people disobey thinking they will get away with it. In Hebrews 11:7 the word reverent is used with fear to emphasize the great respect of God by Noah. Thus we can deduce that fear is primarily used in those two senses. I now present to you at least three major things I know about fear or terror.

Fear Has a Beginning and is Universal
Fear tracks us like a bloodhound, from Adam and Eve, and finds us out! It came through the sin of disobedience by Adam and Eve in the Garden of Eden, Gen3. We are told that upon eating of the fruit of the tree from which God had commanded them not to eat, “the eyes of both of them were opened. And they knew (realized) that they were naked.” And when “they heard the voice of Jehovah (the Lord) God walking in the garden in the cool of the day”, it is stated “Adam and his wife hid themselves from the presence of Jehovah God in the middle of the trees of the garden.” And upon being called out to, Adam responded, “I heard your voice in the garden, and I was afraid, because I am naked, and I hid myself.” The opening of their eyes signified opening (awakening) the “eyes” of their consciences and their hearts condemning them and they feared as a consequence of the sin they had committed. Their fear was as real as their realization of what they had done, and of losing God’s favour, friendship, blessedness and their dominion over (nature and perhaps particularly) the creatures, and what they opened themselves to, namely: shame/disgrace, God’s judgment and enmity, and other miseries.

We may perceive it differently and it may appear in different shades and degrees, but fear is everywhere in the world and is tacked somewhere in every heart of fallen humanity and in nature, seeking opportunity for manifestation. The fact that fear is something we all personally experience at one point or another, something we perceive or witness or hear/read about, cannot be refuted and does not need a genius to convince us. Its mention numerously from Genesis (through Abraham and Isaac, David, the disciples in the New Testament) to Revelation is also enough evidence of its universality; and God’s ample command or encouragement for us not to fear is proof of its devastating effects if left free or unchecked.  Continued in Part 2!

Friday, January 25, 2013

2012 – A YEAR TRULY WITH TIME FOR EVERYTHING!


Ecclesiastes 3:1-8

“To everything there is a season, and a time for every purpose under the heavens” 

Personally, the year 2012 should have started with a spiritual exercise in prayer for various reasons and issues. And it did. There was repentance and clearing up or de-cluttering, anticipation and excitement, sorrow and acceptance, as well as repose and trusting; with some general ups and downs, storms, sunshine and the rain. I remember the big and small meetings, the lonely times as well as the most perplexing and joyous and awe-inspiring, breath-taking moments! I am sure you too recall something of this sort.

The year had begun and ended with the exhausting and interestingly terrifying bus trips to Dar-es-salaam and a fleet drive back home. One of the highlights on the closing trip to Dar was the fresh awe-inspiring panorama of the magnificent Tonga Mountains, with one of God’s ancient promise symbols. A rainbow with a soft radiance projected smoothly in the sky lit with the silky setting sun that beamed through quiet and gentle showers, was fabulous to behold!

This time, the driver drove in an unusually calm manner and handled the longest bus I have ever been on, with ease and it prompted people to eagerly peep on the side cliff. I took short glances too, deeply savouring the natural mixed scent accorded through a therapeutic breeze, as though I was not engrossed with “Preach the Word” by Denis Lane. I revived one of my disciplines that usually characterise my travelling by public transport – reading! The hot weather and people standing next and almost elbowing me from time to time, made it difficult to concentrate but I persevered. And the reality is that there may be no benefit without perseverance.

I could not be more grateful to the Lord because the year ended with God’s innumerable blessings! The blessing of spiritual growth, maturity and serving, of family and true friends. Of vocation and increase and progress. These I count above His discipline, above sorrow, disappointments and failure, loss and pain, or danger and above any affliction (most of which are blessings in the negative). To the holy and almighty, eternal and immortal, invisible, gracious and only wise God be praise, glory and dominion forever and ever amen!

Monday, October 22, 2012

TRIBUTE TO STANLEY NKWILIMBA (26 Sep 1973 – 13 Oct 2012)


Teach me thy way, O Lord, and lead me in a plain path (Psalm 27:11).


Today marks one week of putting Stanley’s remains into the ground (16th October) and it is fitting for me to give an accolade. I simply want to thank the Lord God Almighty for the season he gave me to know and camp with Stanley and remember him as a dear brother and friend in this short tribute. This is because his passing has left an indelible memory and a challenge: to hold fast to the Lord Jesus in full obedience! Brethren and friends, we may not fully know and understand the Lord’s way but we should humbly pray that He may teach us that way and help us to live for him. I knew Stanley for about nine years but we only related closely from somewhere 2004 when I joined him to share accommodation. That time we were both courting our beloveds (he courted Beatrice, and I, Mercy) and had several things in common. It is interesting that our weddings were about a month apart, theirs in October and ours in November 2005. We thus shared and collected some wedding songs together.

 I do not claim to have known him very well but of a fact I can say that he was not only accommodating in every conceivable way but also a brother’s keeper, a godly and committed Christian who did not live for this world. He lived a simple, happy and joyful life. Stanley and I did not just eat together, sleep on the same bed and talk about social and economic issues that affected us; we sharpened each other spiritually as reformed evangelicals, challenged ourselves to live relevantly and do the best with what we have. We knew it is not easy and right to belong to big and growing Reformed Baptist Churches in the city and just be on the membership list – Lusaka Baptist and Kabwata Baptist have various and common challenges.

 Stan loved reading and bought Christian books, so did I and we encouraged each other to have a library of mixed sound literature. I remember no sooner did I marry than I bought a bookshelf and filled it! We constantly checked on and prayed for each other as we acknowledge that we had a rough road to travel and our burdens were made lighter. And we would joke and laugh and I hope we did not disturb or offend our neighbours. For Stan, the Lord Jesus shone “through the cloud and rain, through sorrow, toil and pain.” I envied some things about Stanley while he lived and I have envied his going ahead of me to heaven!


To all those who indeed do not have a living and loving relationship with our Lord and Saviour Jesus yet, I recommend Him and say with the prophet Zechariah, “See your King comes to you, righteous and having salvation”. Receive Him!



Wednesday, October 17, 2012

GONE IN A BREATH - A TRIBUTE TO DEBRA MITI DAKA


TRIBUTE TO DEBRA MITI DAKA
“The Lord gave, and the Lord has taken; blessed be the name of the Lord” (Job1:21)

I was almost giving up on writing this tribute because of the time that has elapsed since we buried our beloved Debra, but what she meant could not allow it. Debra has left an indelible mark in my life, my wife’s and I am sure in the lives of many others, this side of eternity! She was privileged, as I, to have been the first one I met in Kafue Estates of the in-laws to be. This was before I proposed to her young sister Mercy, whom she looked after for a while up to the time she completed her first college training. We thank God for the period he gave her to us.

She was quite objective during arrangements for our marriage and insisted on what is biblical, and therefore we got even closer as she knew that I loved the Lord Jesus. I had no doubt that she wanted her sibling I to become a happy couple whatever the circumstance! She got married a year after us to Mr Jethro Daka, a man she held on to and definitely loved till death parted them, as God’s will. It is difficult for me to really describe her but I can simply say she was a nice person and a Christian, always calm and collected; one who you could approach, talk and share your problems with and be sure of being heard. And that alone somehow relieves and lightens the burden!

That depiction Debra demonstrated while she was hospitalized, even to her last breath! Sometimes you can know and tell something about a person especially when they are sick or dying. It reveals what they really believe and/or hold
on to. In her pain and weakness, with the adverse effects of the medicine she was being given for her treatment, Debra would quote Bible verses expressing her trust and hope in God and His preciously sweet promises. This was a challenge to many and envy for some of us! We certainly learnt vital lessons as family and individuals. Remaining are fond memories of her and a vacuum that may not be filled. Debra is deeply missed only on this side, as I and the believing family members and friends hope to meet her in heaven soon!

A GOOD FRIEND AND DEAR SISTER
OPEN, SERENE AND STRONG
QUIETLY WILLING TO DEPART, A THING NOT SINISTER
SIGHING NOT YET TEACHING MUCH
DEEPLY BREATHING, HEARKENING TO GOD’S CALL
DEAD BUT TRANSPORTED AND RESTING
EMBRACED WHAT IS BETTER AND EVERLASTING
SHE WAS GONE IN A BREATH!